God has called you to offer you His salvation. In His goodness He leads you to repentance. He uses the circumstances of your life to induce a godly sorrow - a deep contrition for your sin and your sinful nature. Such sorrow can be triggered by ill-health, by loss of someone close, by reverses, simply by a general dissatisfaction with your life. But whatever it is, you begin to seek, and follow, God's way. To seek and to follow is repentance. Repentance is not a "feeling". It is action! It is a turning to God's "narrow way". It is willing obedience.

And you can't leave obedience till after your baptism!

When God begins to call you, it is His Spirit that is working with you. You are not alone, for the Holy Spirit is with you, prompting you to obedience. It is for you to turn those prompts into action! You show your submission to God by a changed life-style, by starting to produce good fruit. And you start before baptism.

Check List

This article is not meant to be a substitute for counsel with a competent counselor of the Church. You ought to discuss baptism fully, and indeed baptism won't be carried out unless you do - for your own sake! Here, however, is a "check list" to summarize key parts of what the counsellor wants you to understand.

Not surprisingly, there are ten areas of your life to make a start on before baptism. Unless you are committed to them God won't give you His Spirit. They are signposts to the life in Christ. God expects you to take your first steps of obedience before giving you His Spirit. Like any parent, He does not look for maturity from a babe - but you have to take those first steps as evidence of commitment!

Let's look at the ten areas in brief. Note, however, that these are foundational. True repentance means we are giving to God (not to any man!) an "open check". We will throughout life continue need to repent of numerous attitudes and actions as we grow in knowledge of God's Word.

1. Determine to put God, His Word and His work first in your life. Have you made this commitment?

2. Realize that true religion is of the spirit and not dependent on the physical - e.g. religious symbols, pictures, buildings. Are you looking to God for salvation and not to your deeds or religious trappings?

3. All our service to God reflects His revealed Word. If it's contrary to Scripture, if it does not carry God's imprint - discard it. It is "vain worship", and idolatrous. This applies, for example, to many "Christian" traditions. It applies to religious "holy days": only those revealed in Scripture are acceptable to God - see Leviticus 23. Have you begun to observe God's Holy Days, and renounced traditional Christian holidays like Christmas and Easter?

4. God requires positive worship from us each week on His (7th day) Sabbath, coupled with cessation of our normal business activity. Do you now observe God's weekly seventh-day Sabbath?

5. Our Christian life is marked by recognition of God's pattern of family life. Take steps to be on good terms with your family. Have you taken steps (e.g. forgiveness) to be reconciled to your parents?

6. Be reconciled, also, to all those to whom you have any animosity. Failure to forgive means we inwardly harbor murderous thoughts. Have you searched your heart for hatred, and begun to love your enemies?

7. Determine to discipline yourself to purity of thought: check that what you read, what you view, what you think is godly, and according to God's Word. Adultery, homosexuality, lesbianism and all forms of perverted sexual behavior are sinful. God requires His people to be chaste, and faithful within marriage. Have you abandoned all unlawful personal relationships?

8. Be industrious, respectful of the property of others, and generous in all your good deeds. Are you following only legal occupations, honest in your dealings - e.g. with your employer and the tax man?

9. Truthfulness and honesty should become constant companions. Are you helpful and supportive to your neighbor, willing to overlook his faults?

10. Be thankful for what you have, and don't desire what's not yours, nor what you can't afford (e.g. consumerism, gambling), nor what's harmful to your body (e.g. smoking, alcohol, drugs) - all are forms of idolatry! If necessary get professional help to conquer such habits. If, however, you are actively trying to be rid of them, but have not yet succeeded, it need not stop you from being baptized. Are you content with your lot, yet actively trying to conquer harmful habit?

I repeat - you must be committed to this outline. But God knows our weakness, and does not expect maturity of a babe in Christ!

False Conversion?

This is a brief summary of how we should begin to live before baptism. Repentance means we voluntarily submit to this way of life. Unless committed to these ten commandments we are not truly repentant. They are "seeds" that we plant before baptism. As we mature in Christ they bring forth an abundance of godly fruit.

If we are not so committed our baptism is a sham.

It will result in a "false conversion" in which we worship Jesus Christ in vain. Dangerously, we will be lulled into a false security, assuming we are "saved". Multiple millions follow this path of lawlessness, and, led by false shepherds, become blinded to the beautiful way of life revealed through God's Law. Such may indeed have sorrow for their sin. They see in Jesus Christ the forgiveness of that sin. But by false teachings they are then led to resist God's holy and perfect and righteous Law! That resistance is carnal, and spells death.

Obedience to God is not "salvation by works". It is an expression of our submission to His lordship and sovereignty. Joyful obedience to God's torah - as expanded in all of Scripture - is one sign that we are truly being converted. No-one can expect to be converted, can expect God to give His Holy Spirit, can be sure of salvation unless they first "bring forth fruit meet for repentance"

Can you be saved, for example, without keeping the Sabbath? It's the wrong question! Rather we ought to ask, Will God freely give His Holy Spirit to someone who knowingly refuses to obey His revealed Word? Clearly - no!

Remember: God will give His Holy Spirit - without which we are none of His (Romans 8:9) - only to those who have become truly sorry for their sin, and are changing their life-style according to the way of life revealed in His Word. Only then, and wholly by His grace and mercy, we enter His Family as new-born babes in Christ.

Are you prepared to be baptized?

Written by: James McBride
(Originally titled Coming To Baptism)