Guidelines for Prayer
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What exactly IS prayer to God? What is it NOT? What makes for an effective prayer to our heavenly Father and Creator of the entire Universe?
What exactly is it?
Prayer is more than simply having a conversation with a Being who made us and who oversees our entire destiny. It is an act of worship and reverence, a conscious choice to connect "up close and personal" with the One whose very existence is the definition of love.
Prayer is the means by which we acknowledge and strengthen our relationship with the Eternal and seek out His will for our lives. It is the avenue by which we can honestly confess our sins, ask forgiveness in the name of Jesus Christ, and cry out to God for help in overcoming them and the trials of life. It is also the way we can petition our heavenly Father for the benefit and blessing of others - even those who use and persecute us (Matthew 5:44).
8. The one who does not love does not know God because God is love. (1John 4)
True prayer is not a religious ritual meant to appease an all-powerful Deity. It is not the means by which we can bargain with or extort from God (as if it were possible) to give us what we want (or demand!). It is also not a sign, of itself, that we are more righteous or better than others.
5. And when you pray, you shall not be as the hypocrites, for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the corners of the streets, in order that they may be seen by men. Truly I say to you, they have their reward (Matthew 6)
Guidelines for Effective Prayers
An effective prayer is not a formula but one that comes from the heart and is sincere (Hebrews 10:22). It is not one that is memorized and repeated verbatim like the "Lord's Prayer" of Matthew 6 (which Jesus gave as an outline and not as a set formula for talking with God) or memorized and repeated endlessly like Catholics do with their rosary. Such mindless repetitions do not insure God will either hear it or grant what is requested.
7. And when you pray, do not use vain repetitions, as the heathen do; for they think that by multiplying their words they shall be heard. (Matthew 6)
- Our prayers should be directed to our heavenly Father in the name of Jesus Christ (Philippians 4:6, John 16:22-24)
While it is good to set aside time every day to commune with God, there is no set period in which prayer is better or more effective to partake of than others. In fact, the Apostle Paul states we should be in a constant state of communicating with our Father (1Thessalonians 5:17)!
- In the Old Testament prayers were offered while standing (1Samuel 1:26), kneeling (1Kings 8:54) or even lying prostrate (2Chronicles 6:13). Although the posture that "should" be used is not stated in the New Testament, the most commonly mentioned one is kneeling (Acts 7:60, 9:40, 20:36, etc.).
Just like when we study the Bible, our attitude is of tantamount importance when we talk with God. We should come to him humbly, with a child-like heart, and a willingness to not only be totally honest with him but also to seek and do His will.
15 "I am the high and holy God, who lives forever. I live in a high and holy place, but I also live with people who are humble and repentant" (Isaiah 57)
6. But He gives greater grace. This is the reason it says, "God sets Himself against the proud, but He gives grace to the humble." (James 4)